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How to Grab Attention and Feel Confident

June 12, 2018, Sabina Sheikh

Make them stop and stare by using these small little tips that go a long way. We all want to be the center of attention for any occasion, and we all know that no matter what we do, playing the dress to impress card is always the way to go. You do not need expensive brands to be popular or to stand out. You need to be you. No matter how insecure you are, you are as beautiful as can be if you only know how to present yourself. No matter how expensive your outfit is, the smile on your face will make it be 1,000 times more precious. Read these tips and try them as soon as possible. Subscribe to my blog and read these articles every day to enjoy the best occasions and events of your life.

1. Stay classy, but a little bit sassy.

Class is extremely important, if you think that revealing every part of your body through your clothes is the only way to grab attention, then you are wasting your time reading this blog. It's a fact that you will definitely grab attention but not in a good way, you will only be seen as a method of entertainment. To present yourself as classy, you do not need branded outfits, you need your sense of style because every one of us has a fashionista within themselves. Accessorize yourself with pearl earrings with a cute chain or pendant around your neck and a little classy bracelet. These things may seem small but they are definitely noticed and make you look more presentable. A little more classy but attention-grabbing outfits would be to wear pearl earrings, with a cute silver pendant around your neck and a perfect charm bracelet. An example of a classy outfit would be a pair of palazzo pants with a cute crop top, with a sun hat and a perfect handbag. And this doesn't require you to have thousands of dollars in your bank account, this can be bought anywhere.

The other most important thing to wear is your attitude and be confident and sophisticated, this does not mean that you have to be mean and rude, but be humble and mysterious. The best way to grab attention is to reveal your personality through your clothes.

2. Create your own fashion style.

You don't have to look at every fashion magazine or blog and follow their style, make your own outfit, and stand out from the crowd, don't be ashamed or shy to reveal your fashion sense. Trust me, everybody loves a change, be different and make yourself different from everyone else. Be creative and put outfits together. IT makes you look different and unique. Wear something you feel comfortable and positive in, an outfit that makes you feel like the most beautiful women in the world.

3. Confidence

Confidence is key, for every outfit you wear you have to believe that it was made only for you, and no one else could have pulled it off better than you have. You need to walk into a room thinking that everyone is looking at you and you are the best-looking person in the room, and everyone is amazed by your outfit. If you have trouble being confident, try hanging out with a group of friends that make you feel special and appreciate your beauty, make some male friends that would value your beauty because, to be honest, girls are jealous and refrain from telling everyone the truth. Stay fit and healthy, I heard that before getting ready, brushing your teeth gives 20 percent of the confidence you need.

4. Color Choices

When choosing or purchasing clothes it is very important to choose colors that suit you and make you stand out in the room. Everyone has a color that makes them look good. If you have a dark skin tone, neutral light colors would be very attractive, just as someone who has a fair skin tone would look better in darker colors. Color choices are very important when picking out an outfit, you simply can mix and match black jeans with any type of top, however, pink jeans would not match with a brown top. Color coordination should be carefully considered when managing an outfit.

5. Smile and be positive.

Whenever you go anywhere, for any occasion or event, smile widely and make yourself look like the happiest and confident person earth, which would make you approachable and make everybody love to talk to you. People can sense insecurity and can tell if someone is in a bad mood and appreciate people who are more cheerful and can make them happy too. Hence, it is extremely important to carry your smile wherever you go and with whatever outfit you wear.

6. Don't bathe in makeup.

Everybody loves and appreciates a natural look, nobody likes a cake face. Makeup is useful, however, it should be used in moderation. Pick out a foundation that exactly matches your skin tone, otherwise, it would make you look like a cake face and extremely unattractive. The best way to do your makeup in which you look natural and attractive is, to apply a little bit of your foundation, make sure to dab it all across the face to make it look as natural as possible, apply some mascara and make sure its not messy, apply very light eyeliner under your eyes and make them look as natural as possible. That's all you need to do on small occasions like dates or school. Keep it simple and natural, overdoing anything is bad.

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