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Finding Myself

Do you really know yourself as well as you think you do?

By Mitak AhmedPublished 6 years ago 3 min read
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To find yourself and to figure out who you are is the most important thing someone needs to do. If you don't know who you are or don't know anything about yourself, then that is the same as saying that you're lost.

If you don't know what kind of person you are, what qualities you have, what strengths and weaknesses you have, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, why do you cry, why do you laugh, why do you smile, why are you kind, why are you rude, then it's fair to say you are nothing but someone that has no meaning, you are someone that is just blank with nothing to write about.

No one can tell you otherwise when you have figured yourself out, your mind is like a puzzle. All these emotions, feelings, thoughts, and mindsets that separate you from everyone else.

Everyone wants to be successful and everyone acts like they got it all figured out but how many of us really do.

Life is like a box full of chocolates, you just have to find the right ones that taste best to you.

When I talk about my life and my past I feel like I'm complaining, and it's just like oh Mitak get over yourself. I'm only talking about this so it can help others like me or similar to me. So it shows that those other people are not alone I'm here for them and I'm going to help them whether it's through my writing or me physically going out there, and offering my hand and wiping their tears away. I want to show the world that who you are is not a bad thing, that you are one extraordinary creation that's waiting to be discovered.

Finding yourself is all about the person you watch yourself become. We don't know how amazing we really are. We as humans can go through so much and still not give up. Whatever we go through in life helps us grow as a person and makes us stronger, but end of the day it's all up to you.

It's up to you if you want to be happy, it's up to you if you want to change yourself, it's up to you whether you just stop fighting your feelings and let them be, it's up to you to decide to just accept your problems and deal with them instead of trying to run away from them. It’s up to you if you want to accept everything including reality and stop pretending that everything is okay or everything is going to be fine. When you know deep down that it won't. The only way it will, is if you face reality, accept it and deal with it until its solved.

Ask yourself, who am I? What kind of person am I? What kind of person do I want to be? Am I being that kind of person? What is the one thing I really want in life? What is the one thing that will make me happy? Am I happy the way I am? Do I trust others? Do I show my feelings? Do I ask for help? Am I in my fantasy more than I am in my reality? Am I happy the way I am? Am I happy where I am in life right now? Do I need to change? What are these successful people doing differently than me? What have they figured out that I haven't yet? Am I just scared of failure? Do I just give up because it's the easier option? Do I just take short cuts to things? Do I just take the easier way out? Don't I believe in myself and trust myself that I will do well?

Don't I want to be happy and successful?

If you can’t find happiness within yourself, how do you expect it to find it anywhere else?

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